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31) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH. Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no. Whipcream is best forgiving head, so you might want to have some near by.
32) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It’s as sexy as a belching contest.
33) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she’s a Romanian
gymnast, don’t get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
34) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don’t.
35) GIVING LOVE BITES. It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
36) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS. Don’t shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It’s not a big turn-on.
37) TALKING DIRTY. It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she’ll let you know.
38) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you. Real men take proper care of their woman’s needs.
39) SQUASHING HER. Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue. Use your elbows to support your weight – all the time!
40) THANKING HER. Never thank a woman for having sex with you. Your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.
My very first time – sex guide (part IV)
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21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it’s more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you’re playing Marathon Man.
22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don’t know, don’t ask.
23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don’t act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris. Lap like a cat, just don’t act like one.
24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. Men persist in doing this until she’s eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It’s about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her. Or even better, do her first, you’ll be surprised what a woman will do after a man has had his face between her legs.
25) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes that taste. When she’s performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what’s necessary.
26) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don’t thrust. She’ll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there and enjoy it. And don’t grab her head. Women don’t like that!
27) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES. In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do. So don’t do it, unless asked.
28) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn’t feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest. Top is a fine place for women to control their own orgasm, just don’t make it into work.
29) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not
being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don’t think that being drunk is an excuse.
30) TAKING PICTURES. When a man says, “Can I take a photo of you?” she’ll hear the words, “__to show my buddies.” At least let her have custody of them.
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11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don’t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she’s not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid’s toy.
13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it’s all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you’re trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you’re not careful, it can hurt – so don’t get carried away. It’s best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You’re attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don’t force the issue by stripping before she’s at least made some move toward
getting your stuff off, even if it’s just undoing a couple of buttons.
17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. A man in socks and underpants is at his worst. Lose the socks first.
18) GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool – she’ll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, alternating thrusts.
19) GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few short moments.
20) COMING TOO SOON. Every man’s fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too. Or you might find yourself alone with your hand the next time you’re feeling amorous.
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1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you’re paying by the hour and trying to get your money’s worth by cutting out nonessentials. A properly passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there’s a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you’re trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts!
3) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner’s face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it’s not passion, it’s avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a house-wife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.
5) BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman’s nipples, then clamp down like they’re trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can’t stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they’re a doggie toy isn’t.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you’re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you’ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you’re going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is the man’s responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.
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How to make a woman orgasm without penetration
It was a nice evening with just the two of us. We had a candle light dinner and a bottle of wine. You looked very sexy in your elegant evening gown. On the way home you were saying how much of a lovely time you had at our romantic dinner. After we returned home you were standing in the bedroom kicking off your shoes when you asked me to rub your back. I approached you from the rear and placed my hands onto your shoulders. You let out a sigh when I began to massage you. You started saying how good it felt when I took my hands and traced down the outside of your arms. When I reached your hands I started to massage your fingers very gently. Then tracing back up your arms I pulled my hands across your shoulders then down your back putting just enough pressure on each side of your spine with my thumbs while placing my fingers on the out side of your back.
I continued this until you were totally relaxed. I then reached your butt and took my time to caress each cheek gently. I then continued down your left leg to your foot. I proceeded to move back up this time with my hands under your dress to your butt. I again massaged each cheek gently, while ever so lightly caressing the back of your neck with my mouth. I then moved down the right leg to your foot. Then with a hand on each leg I moved my hands back up the sides of your body removing your beautiful dress. I take the dress up over your head. Placing my hands back onto your head I gently massage your scalp down to your neck. I then turn you to be you facing me. I lightly give you a kiss on the forehead telling you how beautiful you are. With the back of my hands I trace ever so gently down each cheek to your neck. Then with feather light touches I trace around your breast back up between them to your neck. I’m careful not to totally touch either breast or nipple.
Again I gently glide my hands down your arms and gently massage each finger. I then move my hands around to your back down your butt and on down your legs. Then with my thumbs on your inner thigh I trace back up your legs. Just before I reach your panties, I pull my thumbs out and place my hands on the back of your thighs. I continue up, placing my face ever so close without touching you so she can feel my warm breathe, as I move up to your stomach, I move my hands back around to your stomach and feathery touch you in between your breasts back to your face. I gently kiss you on the mouth while I ever so diligently pick you up and place you onto the bed. Once on the bed I have you roll onto your stomach. I then sit next to you and spend a very large amount of time gently massaging you. I start at the top of your head and continue down your back and arms to your butt, were I kiss each cheek, then continue to massage you to your feet. Once at your feet I repeat the process only in reverse and go back to the top of your head. I then roll you onto your back. Again I gently massage you.
Starting with your face continuing around your breast making sure I don’t touch a nipple. I then kiss around your breasts and let your nipples feel my warm breath. I continue kissing you all over down your stomach then to your moist pussy that has soaked your lace panties. After you have felt my breathe upon you, I trace with light touches around your mound without touching your clit, then I go down each leg until I reach your feet. I then repeat the process only this time in reverse back to your face. I’m careful not to touch your nipples or your pussy. I then kiss you ever so gently on the mouth. Then moving to your ears and suck them as you like. I continue to kiss you with like pecks using my tongue on your face and neck continuing down your chest to your nipples. I take each nipple into my mouth gently sucking and licking spending ample time. I continue down your stomach to your bellybutton. I gently lick and bite your bellybutton before continuing to your lace panties. I gently slide them off. When I reach her feet I take your panties and sniff her sweet nectar that you have left in them.
I then take and suck and lick each toe into my mouth. Starting back up I alternate my kissing on each leg. Has I go back up you begin to spread your legs. I lay between your legs and ever so elegantly begin to kiss and lick the inner part of your thighs. I can feel the heat you have started to generate upon my face. I continue this around your pussy and then on each lip.
As you feel my warm breath on you, you begin to moan ever so softly. I continue to slowly tease you by licking your pussy from the top all the way to your anus, I tell you how sweet you taste but careful not to touch your clit. Then when you begin to moan louder and starts to squirm and can not take it any longer, I gently lick your clit. I then take your clit into my mouth where I elegantly suck it. Not to hard at first just soft and slow.
As you begin to rock and moan loudly I then suck your clit faster and harder. As you have your first of many, orgasm I do not release your clit from my mouth. Only when you begin to relax will I release you. Then with a gentle tongue I slowly lick your pussy and anus clean. Slowly tasting all of her sweetness, and not leaving a drop. When you have totally relaxed I move up and tell you how beautiful you are and how much I love you. I then kiss you Good Night.
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Any men have struggled to find a solution for this, just like in the case of any other problem. A small penis size does not have to be a problem for long because there is something men can do to change the situation. As you may know, penis enlargement is not exactly a new thing. In one form or another, it has been around for centuries wherever men felt the need to enlarge their penises. Today, thousands of men resort to penis enlargement products or services, especially since modern science has done a good job proving and disproving some of the techniques, as well as allowing for a more systematic approach. Nice, isn’t it?
However, any man just starting out wants to know a few things. Although the theory is pretty simple, one can’t just going into the bathroom to exercise or strap a traction device on in the middle of the living room. There are a hundred questions any newbie would like to ask the veterans about how penis enlargement works, what accessories are needed and how long should enlargement sessions be. These are all details, but very important details. These are little problems almost everybody faces on day one of the penis enlargement program.
The first advice any veteran will give to a new comer is to have patience. Of course, nobody likes to be patient and to be told that results won’t show for a couple of weeks. It’s hard to stay motivated when days go by and you have nothing to show for your efforts. Still, persistence pays off and those who have the strength to carry on with the program will find that results do come in time. Keep in mind that tissue needs time to grow and that many people experience growth spurts and plateaus and that you just need to be patient.
Plateaus happen every now and then to almost every man who’s engaged in penis enlargement. Those who are trying to enhance their penis through exercises should simply change their routines. If an exercise doesn’t seem to bring gains anymore, replace it with another exercise. There is no set program; every user is free to come up with his own routine and to experiment with exercises until he finds what’s best for himself.
Some beginners are impatient and think that having more than one penis enlargement session per day would help gains happen faster. However, more than one penis enlargement session per day will simply exhaust the tissues without rushing things up. In this case, it’s the intensity and regularity that counts because doing a routine more than once per day is not as good as doing it once, but very intense. The tissues need time to recover and grow in size, just like muscles need time after a gym session. Overtraining is never recommended.
This category of questions also includes the dilemma of whether longer stretching is better than more repetitions. Frankly, this is mostly a question of whatever works for individuals and not a general rule that can be applied to everyone. Experiment with longer stretching and more reps and see what’s best for you. If more reps do the trick, then go for more reps.
Another problem faced by beginners and old timers alike is the fact that pubic hair gets in the way of both exercises and the use of traction devices. There’s always the fear of inadvertently pulling hair and some men feel they can’t get a good grip on the base of the shaft because of the hair. Well, penis enlargement requires certain sacrifices from users and my advice is to clip the hair short or to shave it altogether. No sense in struggling through a session because of the hair.
And it’s not only hair that gets in the way. The penis is not a precision tool that can be set to achieve partial erections on demand, which is why men sometimes find themselves fully erect and unable to perform exercises that require only a partial erection. The only way of dealing with this is to focus on something else (read a magazine that does not contain porn or a book, watch TV, think about financial problems) and to wait for the erection to subside.
A big mistake that many inexperienced users make is to measure their penises too often. Frequent measuring is unlikely to show big gains and can undermine the motivation of a man engaged in penis enlargement. Since results do come in time, men should not measure their penis more than once every four or five weeks. This may seem to be a long time to wait for results, but less than four weeks is not enough time for tissues to increase in size in a visible manner.
One of the controversial issues that had the penis enlargement community arguing is the issue of ejaculation after workout sessions. Some penis enlargement aficionados have argued that testosterone levels drop sharply after ejaculation, which may hurt gains, while others have said that ejaculation is the hallmark of a healthy sex life, which is, after all, the purpose of penis enlargement. At present, there is no certain way of telling whether ejaculation has a big impact on gains or not.
This issue goes hand in hand with the question of having sex immediately after a workout. It is generally advisable to let at least an hour pass between the end of your workout and sex in order to allow the penis tissues to heal and rebuild before flooding them with blood again. Also, enlargement sessions exhaust the penis and it’s not a good idea to subject it to a second round of physically intensive activity in such a short period of time.
One question that crops up every now and then in the minds of curious newbies is whether drinking water increases penis size or not. The answer is: no, not exactly. If drinking water alone could increase the size of limbs, then one could also gain inches in height or girth at the end of a single day. Hydration helps clean the body as toxins and other substances that cannot be used are dumped into the kidneys and sent out through urine. A body free of toxins is a healthier body and is able to heal itself faster, but that’s about as far as it goes. Simply drinking water cannot increase your penis size.
PC flexes are a popular exercise among the penis enlargement crowd and a very effective one, too. Newbies often wonder if flexes should be performed fast and furious or slow and cool. However, there is no big difference between the two approaches. Going slow will help build resistance to prolonged effort, while the fast approach will help the muscle get used to intense exertion. It all depends on what you’re looking for: short term intensity or stamina.
An interesting way of helping the flow of blood and the healing process in tissues is to use a device known as the Ring of Power. This ring causes a flow of electricity around the base of the penis and testicles in order to stimulate cellular activity, testosterone production and blood flow. If you’re planning to get one, keep in mind that such devices do not work in the same manner for everyone. Also keep in mind that your penis skin may not like the contact with zinc or copper. Some users have reported unpleasant rashes.
Prudence is actually a good rule of the thumb for every product that does not come with the endorsement of a professional doctor. Don’t rush in to try every new idea out there because you may regret it. Let others try new products and read what they have to say about them. If the new products sound too good to be true, they may actually be that way. Always be careful when it comes to your health. Stay safe!
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It takes only a split second for your feelings to show on your face. Even if you’ve developed the coolest poker face in the game, you can’t control that first flicker of response. But never mind; the speed of thought is quicker than the eye. Right?
Recent studies have found that people form an impression of you at first sight, in another flicker of a fraction of a second. They don’t even have to see something clearly to get a feeling about it—specifically, whether it attracts them or not.
But not to worry. Such fleeting sensations are flimsy, ephemeral—easily adjusted. All you need is a minute or two, a smile, a good opening line, and you’re in like Flynn. Right?
Not so fast, Slick.
Those first impressions can stick to you like glue, no matter how smooth your line is. The problem is, it’s what you don’t say that tells people more than half of what they think they know about you. It also tells them plenty of what you think about yourself.
Body language is the lingua franca of the dating game. You wear it like a signboard, whether you think about it or not, so it’s a good idea to know if yours says Kiss Me or Kick Me.
The first rule of body grammar is this: the better you feel about yourself, the more attractive you are. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, you’re more relaxed, so you tend to put the people around you at ease. You stand straighter and taller. You’re more balanced.
Don’t think that doesn’t matter. A lot. Balance makes you look symmetrical. Symmetry is a powerful indication of the ability of your genes to achieve the body they were aiming for, and that translates as health and desirability. Study after study has proved that symmetrical faces are usually judged more attractive. Believe it or not, there’s even a correlation between a man’s symmetry and women’s attraction to his body odour and voice—even when they can’t consciously see the difference.
So you’re feeling pretty good, you’re standing straight and solid. What else do you have to worry about?
Rule number two: pay attention. Much of the confusion between the sexes happens when we don’t understand or even think about those nonverbal signals.
For example, if you’re trying your opening gambit and the lady stands with her body pointed away from you—even if she’s looking you straight in the eye—she’d really rather be someplace else. If you’re sitting down, crossed legs can mean the same thing. Notice whether the other person’s leg points toward you or away from you.
If their arms are crossed, it’s a safe bet they aren’t buying your story. Is the lady hugging herself? She’s not necessarily cold; she may just feel cool toward you. On the other hand, she may feel insecure or threatened. Either way, you’re not getting through.
Watch yourself, next time you’re in a group. Odds are, you’ll catch yourself doing the same things. But though you may be telling everybody what you really think of them (even though you didn’t mean to), you also have the key to changing the way they think about you.
This is how it works: next time you want to connect with somebody, simply copy their body language. Don’t be obvious; just casually mirror their position. If she props her chin on her hand, you lean your head on your fist. If she pulls on her earlobe, you scratch your ear. Try crossing your legs in the same direction.
The fact is, you probably do this naturally when you’re talking with someone you already know and like. (Check it out sometime.) But you can encourage that connection with anyone you meet, if you just pay attention.
Let’s say you’re dealing with somebody who’s less than receptive. Their arms are crossed, and they’re leaning away from you. Go ahead: mirror their body language. Not comfortable? That’s okay; keep it up for a minute. Now, quietly shift position. Lean forward. Uncross your arms. Chances are, the other person will unconsciously follow your lead.
Presto! Without noticing, they’re feeling more open. You’re even starting to look better. You’re connecting!
You see? Now admit it: Mom was right all along. You’ve just got to remember to stand up straight!
Virtual libraries have been written about dealing with rejection—how to survive it, how to rise above it. You’ve seen the titles: 3 techniques, 9 phases, 18 steps to . . . deal with it. The truth is, you will survive it (unless you decide not to), and you can learn from it, if you’re straight with yourself.
One other thing they tell you is not to take it personally. Yeah, right. They seldom tell you how that works.
The truth is, it really isn’t personal. (Well, unless you’re truly obnoxious or rude. Then it’s personal.) Usually, it isn’t even about you. That’s the hardest part to accept, of course, because we all want to think it’s all about us. But face it: you can’t be all things to all people. Not unless you’re one of those empathic metamorphs from the planet Krios.
Let’s break it down. You’re most vulnerable to rejection at three points along the road to love.
First approach;
Second date;
Third stage.
Here’s how they work.
First,
Think about it. This person knows absolutely nothing about you (unless, as stated earlier, you’ve been obnoxious or rude), so she (or he) can’t possibly judge you on any but the most superficial level. That’s pretty impersonal.
Likewise, you know absolutely nothing about the object of your desire. He (or she) may already have an eye on someone else in the room. Might already have a Significant Other. Might prefer the other sex. For that matter, you might be the spitting image of somebody who done ‘em wrong, or maybe you sound a lot like their awful Uncle Icky. Nothing at all to do with you as a person. See how it works?
But let’s assume you got that first date (or maybe even a second or third). Now the big question is, will you get the next one?
This is the second checkpoint.
Say you see a pair you’ve just got to have. They’re exactly what you’ve been looking for, perfect in every way, super cool and way hot. Trouble is, they simply don’t fit your feet. Doesn’t matter what size they are; they don’t fit your arch, they pinch your toes, the heel slips. You still love ‘em, but you don’t fancy pain all that much. So you don’t buy.
Now, how personal was that?
But the third stage
Still, it isn’t entirely personal even yet. For instance, do you know whether the object of your affection has been completely up front with you? Does he (or she) date other people? Or promise not to, for that matter? This has nothing to do with how attractive you are, how intense your relationship has been, or how lovable you are.
Some people are simply addicted to the rush they get from each new encounter. They don’t hang around for long. Some (too many) will make an impulsive commitment to you; but that doesn’t mean they can keep it. And when they can’t, they tend to come up with all kinds of reasons to blame you, so they needn’t feel guilty. But see, it’s not really about you. It’s about them.
If you’ve really got it bad,
Are you serious? You were all of those things enough to get as deep into the relationship as you did. So that’s not the problem. The problem is thinking you can change somebody else to fit you.
And this is where it does get personal. Because—you know this—although the only person you can change is yourself, you can’t force yourself into shoes that don’t fit.
So get over it. Call a friend and go shopping. You know the perfect fit is out there somewhere.
you may dump on yourself for not being good enough, or sexy enough, or pretty enough, or whatever enough, to change them. is where the distinctions blur. You’ve been tooling along, heading toward a real relationship, picking up speed, when suddenly you come smack up against a roadblock. That’s gotta hurt. You may feel as though rejection at this point must surely be personal, but it isn’t, really. In fact, the two of you have been trying each other on in much the same way as you might shop for shoes. let’s say you catch sight of a terrific-looking someone across a crowded room. You make eye contact. You make your approach. You make your play. Zap! You’re shot down. How is this not personal?
This is where you may think you’ve got a relationship. Several dates, a month or two maybe, constitute a short-term relationship. More than that—anything that involves a mutual commitment (note: that’s mutual)—is long term, and another matter entirely. So you made it through the first date, and it seemed pretty good to you. Do you get seconds? Nightclub pick-up line, supermarket checkout chat, dog-walk leash tangle, everyday elevator encounter—this is when you ask for the first date, first dance, or phone number. (from SexyAds)
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The trouble with so many women is that they really don’t want to hurt your feelings. They’re just too damned polite.
Or else they want to be pursued. They need to know that you think they’re worth the time and effort. (Don’t think they haven’t considered this, learned it from their mothers, discussed it with each other.) They suspect you’ll value them more, once you’ve won them over.
Gentlemen, this is not a game. It’s self-preservation. At least, that’s the way she sees it. So she’ll send you signals that she expects any worthy potential mate to be able to pick up on. You are smart and sensitive enough to get it, aren’t you?
How to tell if a woman is interested in you? Relax. Here’s a quick guide to interpreting the mating signals used by the human female in the wild to demonstrate that she’s interested in a particular male.
She is
• She smiles a LOT. At you.
• You keep “bumping into” her in the halls at work or at school, at a club, in the supermarket. She smiles. Better yet, she laughs.
• She touches her hair when you talk to her or when she knows you’re looking at her.
• She touches her nose, ditto.
• She catches your eye repeatedly.
• She laughs frequently at the things you say, even when you know they’re not very funny.
• After the stock questions about what you do & what’s your sign, she asks real questions about you, your life & interests.
• If you brush her hand or bump her shoulder, she doesn’t cringe or move several inches away.
• Caution: Do not be fooled if she touches your arm or shoulder while she’s talking to you. This is a personal conversational habit; it only means she doesn’t dislike you.
She isn’t
• She turns slightly away from you while you’re talking to her.
• She crosses her legs (foot pointing away from you), crosses her arms or hugs herself, or does both at once. (Kiss of death.)
• She gets a call on her cell phone and just can’t get the caller to hang up.
• She’s text messaging even as you speak.
• She fiddles with anything her fingers land on, giving far more attention to her napkin or drink than to anything you have to say.
• She gazes over your shoulder or glances around the room while you’re talking.
• She doesn’t talk much. No, she probably isn’t just the quiet type. Even shy girls can speak when spoken to.
• If you have to wheedle, drag, or bully a phone number out of her, do not think she’s “playing hard to get” or that you’ve broken through her defences. It may not be her number. She won’t return your calls.
• If she gives you an open-ended excuse, like “My old boyfriend is stalking me and they haven’t caught him yet, but maybe next week” or “I’m not usually allowed out, but maybe I can hide in the dirty laundry again,” don’t hold your breath.
Once you get the hang of it,
Be careful, though. One fairly common reflex—blushing—is utterly unreliable. Yes, it’s completely involuntary, but since it can be caused by both positive and negative feelings, it won’t tell you much beyond the obvious fact that you’ve had an effect. Is she embarrassed? Angry? Flattered? Is she thinking about what she did last night? Well, what did you say to her, anyway?
Of course, one signal is absolutely unmistakable.
If you get this one, you’re home free.
Maybe—it could happen—maybe she will ask you out.
The signs are easy to read. Several of them, such as nose or hair touching and arm crossing, are entirely unconscious gestures; you probably send the same signals yourself.
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Introduction
Sex is a wonderful thing – I haven’t met a person yet who would dispute this. Everybody loves sex, whether they like talking about it openly or not. One of the reasons you’re reading this is because you enjoy sex and you would like to enjoy it more and have your partner enjoy it more. For all you males reading this, wouldn’t you like to be known around town as the greatest fuck of all time? Or husbands and men in steady relationship – wouldn’t you like your woman to be amazed at your new found sexual knowledge and have her beg you for more sex? Sex can be the greatest pleasure a person can ever experience – or a major disappointment.
Surveys have shown that 75% of women fake orgasm every time, 15% faked it most of the time and about 9.5% said they occasionally faked it. Which leaves about 0.5% who said they never faked it. I know most of you men out there will find this hard to believe, but it’s true. I’m a woman, I know.
Women, by faking orgasms, are missing out on one of the most pleasurable experiences imagineable – but so are their partners. You will realize the difference once you have read this Playgal exclusive article. Both the male and females sexual pleasure increases to unbelievable new heights once you know how to bring a woman to an orgasm every time. Your woman will want you as never before – she will never want or need another man. And girls, if you want to have better sex, then teach your man what I am about to tell you.
Most men I have met were anxious to learn how to satisfy women during sex. Each man I interviewed I asked ‘What do you think makes a woman orgasm most during intercourse?’ Most responses were along the lines of:
‘Just putting my penis inside her gets her excited’ – It may get your partner excited but it is not enough – no where near enough.
‘She just loves me ramming her hard‘ – This is so far from the truth it is ridiculous!
‘Fucking her fast’ – Wrong!
It is generally easy for men to become sexually aroused because his sexual organs are on the outside of the body and are easily stimulated. Men that are unfit mentally or physically can sometimes take longer to arouse, as do men that are bored with their partners. Do you know the main reason men get bored with their partners sexually? Could it be that the woman herself is bored because she is not getting sexual pleasure and therefore doesn’t seem interested in sex as much. Sex would get boring if the pleasure is all one sided, don’t you think guys? Imagine having sex every few days and never reaching an orgasm. Doesn’t sound like much fun does it?
Some men can get a woman worked into a sexual frenzy during foreplay, but then when it comes to intercourse .. the momentum doesn’t continue and in most cases, both the man and woman don’t know what is wrong. Then the woman finally pretends to have an orgasm because she wants the whole event to be over to end the boredom and/or pain.
If a man doesn’t know how to handle intercourse properly the woman will become bored and unsatisfied in the relationship, and look for other options. Most women will tell their men everything is great – just to keep them feeling like a man. The men usually are unsuspecting that there is a problem.
But guys, it’s not your fault – you’re a man; how could you possibly know what it feels like? Only a woman really knows how to satisfy a woman. Only a woman knows the physical sensations of a woman’s body. Most women don’t like talking about it with their partners because it may make them feel less manly.
Most literature is written about rough, ramming and hard sex, so why would anyone think sex should be different – most women think this is the way to have sex too. But I’m going to help you and your partner enjoy sex to its maximum over the next few editions of Playgal.
Tease your Partner First
Women like affection. They like to have their bodies gently caressed. Imagine yourself lying totally naked and 100% relaxed with hands slowly and gently touching your body. Try running your fingertips gently, so gentle you are barely touching your body along the inside of your own arm down to your hand. It tickles a bit but it feels nice, even if it feels like you need to scratch it a little.
When making love with your partner you need to give their body a desire. Gently run your fingertips all over her body barely touching the skin. Do this for 3-4 minutes without touching the breasts or clitoris then slowly work your way up to her breasts but DONT touch her nipples. Circle her breasts with the palms of your hands and fingertips. You can occasionally kiss gently around her breasts but DON’T touch her nipples yet – touch below and above them but not on them.
This will start to drive her crazy – you have created a desire for you to touch her nipples. You are not giving her something she wants. After a few minutes of teasing her very very softly touch her nipples. Then continue to circle the nipples gently with your fingers then gently lick once or twice next to each nipple but not on it.
You are in total control – she is being driven insane by now. You have created an excitement and desire within her sexual being. Now when you feel she is ready – she will let you know it is time to move on to the next step .. The beginning of Intercours.
Note to Part 1:
It is important not to weaken and begin to grope and paw at her breasts and body and do not touch her clitoris in this teasing phase – it will only turn her off. The purpose is to create a want. Don’t weaken – stay in control, this is only the warm-up for great love making.
Part Two
Ready for Action!
Now, you’re both ready to go .. you’re hard and ready, and she’s giving you that look that says she wants it. You just want to plunge straight in – and she’s cheering you on.
DON’T DO IT!
You haven’t gone to all this effort to blow it all now, pardon the pun. Now – you’ve got to really start torturing her..
Touch your penis to the lips of her clitoris .. gently. Softly rub your penis over her clit, letting her know it’s there, ready to enter .. if you want it to. You are now completely in charge, and in total control of the situation. You’re going to tease her until she screams for you to put it in!
Now, she’s asking you to put it in .. but you don’t. Keep teasing. She asks more urgently .. you still don’t. You are in control, and she’s loving it – not knowing when you’re going to enter! Keep teasing, gently rubbing, even if she does scream for you to put it in.
Only when she begins building towards orgasm to you move it further in .. just half an inch or so, very slowly, in and out. After a little while (staying in control!) move it slowly in a full inch .. gradually, keep increasing the amount you put it in, until it’s almost the whole length.
Remember, if you enter the entire length – ram it in – you will make contact with her clit, and this we don’t want; the object is to tease her, make her want you to thrust all the way. The longer you tease her, and yourself, the more intense your orgasms will be.
The Point of Surrender
Now, she’s quivering with desire. Speed up a little – not to ramming speed though – and it’ll push her over the edge. She may scream, she may call at your name (hopefully!) or she may just whimper softly – but you’ll know you’ve given her an orgasm. But keep going! Keep moving in and out, faster now; she’ll orgasm again – more quickly now, with no need for teasing. You can sped up even more if you wish (and can) – but don’t resort to ‘ramming’ her hard.
She may have several more orgasms .. or only one more. Two to five is the norm, and this may be the first one she’s had in a long time! If you’ve been able to keep going past the first one, that’s great .. but even if you cum now, it will be one of the deepest and most incredible orgasms you yourself have ever had.
Refine your technique; try to make yourself hold off longer and longer. It will enrich the sexual experience for both you and your partner.
Note to Part 2:
If you’re both adventurous – and really willing to torture each other, wait until the point of orgasm and stop – dead. Withdraw, and lie down beside her.. then resume again later that or the next day. The anticipation will peak, until the next time you’ll both be ready with hardly any teasing!
